Life

advice

Growing up Advice that I would give the 20 yr old me

     There are no set rules to life. When I entered my 30’s, I reflected on my 20’s and wished that I had someone there...

Alcoholism

Surviving Alcoholism: What it took to save my Life

Alcoholism almost always points to other issues…Mine was,  I wasn’t happy. In the eyes of others, I was doing extremely well. Everything looked great on the...

thanksgiving

The Real Thanksgiving

Like others, growing up, I always looked forward to the holidays. Thanksgiving was always a joy and Christmas was the greenest grass of them all. Holidays...

Why I stopped calling my girlfriends “Bitch”

“Bitch”. It isn’t cute… It isn’t uplifting or flattering. It is actually, pretty degrading. I would say that I grew out of using the ‘B’ word...

womans-independence

Survival Stages to a Woman’s Independence

A woman’s independence cannot be taken for granted. Some would argue that’s how humanity was established.  As a woman, you must know what it takes to...