As gender roles continue to evolve, the traditional rules of dating are no longer set in stone. One of the most contentious topics is “Who pays for the first date?” Some people believe that it is the man’s “job” to pay. Others argue that going Dutch, or half, is a fair and more modern approach. What’s wild is, it’s 2023 and adults are arguing about this topic like overgrown juveniles.

In my opinion, women should always go Dutch on the first date. This also kicks out the poor-minded thought that pussy is payment for a free meal. You pay for what YOU consume on day one. If you cannot afford to pay for your meal, love should NOT be on the tip of your brain…

Let’s get deeper into it.

The Financial Benefit

Going Dutch is more financially feasible for both individuals. Dating is expensive. The tab should never be an issue. People should always have their own back in a matter like this. By splitting the bill, both parties are more likely to relax and enjoy themselves. This is especially important for those who have other financial responsibilities to prioritize.

Naw, I got me

Going Dutch ensures that neither party has to feel obligated to the other. This is important for women who may feel like they owe the man something in return for him paying for the date. It also empowers women to take charge of their own lives and make their own simple decisions. Women should not have to worry about expectations placed on them when it comes to dates.

Let’s talk about Equality

Going Dutch puts both parties on equal footing. It sets the tone for a more balanced and respectful relationship. Rather than the man being the sole provider, both individuals share the responsibility of creating a memorable experience. This can help build a foundation of trust and mutual respect that can lead to a healthier partnership in the future.

Hmm… Expectations?

Going Dutch makes it clear from the beginning what each person’s expectations are. This transparency can help prevent misunderstandings down the line. Basically, pussy is not an automatic form of payment for picking up the tab. It can also help both individuals to determine if they are compatible with one another.

Evolving traditional Gender Norms.

Going Dutch is a way to transform traditional gender norms and expectations. In the past, men have been expected to pay for everything on dates, but this is no longer the case. Women should not have to feel uncomfortable or indebted to a man for paying for their meals. They should be able to enjoy themselves without any strings attached. If it’s dinner, dinner… Simple as that.

Lastly, women should always go Dutch on the first date for various reasons. Not only is it a fair and financially feasible approach, but it also empowers women to make their own decisions. Going Dutch sets the tone for a more balanced relationship. By putting both parties on equal footing, going Dutch allows for more open and honest communication. This can help to avoid misunderstandings in the future. So, if you are still swimming in that pissy dating pool, may the lord and the Force be with you. Seriously, the next time you go on a date, don’t be afraid to go Dutch. It might just be the start of a healthier, happier relationship.