I am doing this post simply to tell the media to CHILL THE F OUT!!! I never intended to write about this on KHARMASWORLD, but after growing more disgusted with how the media is throwing a field day, an unnecessary one at that, I feel compelled to say speak my peace…. I will never condone domestic violence. Either way, beating on your spouse or being an overly insecure control freak is never okay. A  hot-headed jealous rage is never cute. It is a problem that has to be addressed and nipped in the bud.


When I first heard of this “distracting” situation, I said, “Damn, didn’t they just jump the broomstick”? What happened? After that, I tried to dismiss it. I have watched saga unfold for less than a week like the rest of the world. Today, I am left scratching my head…. After reading reports that I can’t seem to go without seeing, I am left with a few questions.  They dated for, how many years, and domestic violence has NOW become a new issue. Mind you after 41 days of holy matrimony. It is unclear to say who head butted who to be honest. I wouldn’t be this skeptical if the victim was someone other than Evelyn. I say that because she has a horrible reputation for being a “bad girl” on camera. We’ve watched her flip tables, instigate fights, and throw countless bottles at people in a quick flash of rage. We have watched her go from Dr. Jekyll to Ms. Hyde in an instant. Hell, that’s her M.O…Remember, America had been watching her “reality” before Ochocino even stepped into the picture. I don’t want to go out and call anyone a liar in this sort of situation, so I wont. Domestic Violence is a very sensitive subject. Whether you are in a situation or not, just the term, “Domestic Violence” is enough to churn anyone’s stomach. It’s just not cool…

I hate to see what is happening to Ochocinco. This is Chris Brown meets Tiger Woods 2.0 on crack with NO FILTER. To sit and watch people tear the both of them down because the marriage didn’t work is sickening. GROW UP SOCIETY! We have more important issues to talk about in a round-table discussion. Here’s a topic, “Gas” BAM! LET’S MOVE ON. Eric Williams (Jennifer Williams still soon-to-be ex hubby) had the nerve to tease Evelyn on twitter about the situation. Mind you, this is the same dude that splashed Jennifer in the face with a glass of wine.Whether you like her or not, how in the hell can you be a GROWN ASS man and taunt someone for dealing with a situation like this. As if simply dealing with the relationship isn’t enough. I couldn’t imagine doing this under a microscope.  Since this situation has popped off, both Evelyn and Ochocinco have both made statements regarding their PERSONAL business.

Here is they personal statements that they released:

Ochocinco via Huffingtonpost:

I would like to apologize to everyone for the recent events that have occurred. I would like to wish Evelyn well and will never say anything bad about her because I truly love her to death. I will continue to be positive and train hard for another opportunity in the NFL. To all the fans and supporters I have disappointed, you have my sincerest apologies. I will stay positive and get through this tough period in my life.


Evelyn via Huffingtonpost:

“It is with great sadness and much trepidation that I release this statement addressing the domestic violence incident that happened this past Saturday,” the reality star wrote in an email via her publicist. “I am deeply disappointed that Chad has failed to take responsibility for his actions and made false accusations against me, it is my sincere hope that he seeks the help he needs to overcome his troubles. Domestic violence is not okay and hopefully my taking a stand will help encourage other women to break their silence as well. I’m grateful to my family, friends and fans for the outpouring of support during this difficult time,” she wrote.

This story will be developing for months to come. I do not intend to write on it AGAIN…